The van was totalled.
Mike got a new truck :) It's a 1999 Dodge Ram and he LOVES it.
I have noticed that he is less argumentative. If we tell him no, he accepts that. He is able to stop his thoughts....he was telling me something that he had already told me and I stopped him and said, "Yes, you told me that yesterday." and he said, "Oh, oh yeah." and moved on to something else. This is VERY different from before. Before, he would just continue talking about what he had started talking about.
I think this was a good decision that we should have made a long time ago.